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October 17, 2006 / TildeWill

Safe, yet Dangerous

After this weekend, I’m pretty sure that the dance floor, if not dating in general works something like this: The guy has to appear dangerous, yet be safe. She has to think you could pull something, but know you have a reason to hold back. I think this is exactly why ladies love to dance with married/engaged men.

Now to the safe extreme, there’s the shy guy. You know he’s not going to pull anything because he hasn’t seen a real woman in his entire life and wouldn’t know what to do with one. But he’s also not dangerous, you know he won’t try to touch you, he won’t try to take you home, or even get your number. He’ll never make the lady feel valuable.

I’m that shy guy. I need to learn to be dangerous…

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